Sermon
- The Rev. Leah D. Schade
Reformation Lutheran Church, Media, PA
Easter Sunday, 2007; April 8
Text: John 20:1-18
"The kiss of the sun for pardon, the song of the birds for mirth,
one is nearer God's heart in a garden than anywhere else on earth."
Have you ever heard of this little poem? It was written by Dorothy
Frances Gurney, and the first time I read it was on a little placard in the
garden of my husband’s grandmother, whom we called Mam Mam. I loved
walking through Mam Mam’s garden, sitting on the double-wide swing gazing
at her well-tended flowers and plants. Every year I’d ask her to give me
a tour of each bed, asking her the names of what was growing there to get ideas
for my own garden. She knew each flower and plant by name, weeding the
beds, harvesting the vegetables, and sharing her bounty at her kitchen table
with whomever came to visit.
When you sat on the swing in her garden, you looked across the yards and saw
the church where she was a member and the organist for over fifty years --
Salem Lutheran Church. Many times we sat on that swing there in the
garden and listened to the chimes ringing out from the steeple, watching the
sun set in the warm evening sky. Indeed, I often felt nearer to God’s
heart in Mam Mam’s garden than anywhere else on earth.
I think it is very interesting that Mary would mistake Jesus for “the gardener”
when she first sees him on that Easter morning. She doesn’t mistake him
for a soldier, or a priest, or one of the other disciples. Anyone one of
those players in the events of the past three days could have been lurking
around the tomb that morning. But Mary looks at the man standing there
and sees - a gardener.
What does a gardener do? The gardener is the one who takes the seed or
the young seedlings and plants them in the ground. The gardener tends to
the growing plants, bringing water when there is not enough rain, pulling out
weeds that steal nutrients, and, if there is fruit or grain or produce to be
harvested, the gardener carefully collects it, gleans the best seeds for new
plantings, and starts the process over again.
You know, Jesus had a story about planting seeds. It’s the one about
casting the seeds in different types of soil, some falling on rocky ground,
some eaten by birds, some choked by thorns, and only the ones falling on good
soil grow into a full crop.
So apparently Jesus knew something about the fragility of seeds and the
precariousness of life. He also knew something about the tenacity of life
- the power that lies within that tiny seed. Do you remember the story of
the mustard seed that he used to tell? The tiniest seed that grows into
the grandest of bushes, harboring the nests of many birds.
Yes, a gardener knows something about the cycles of life. A gardener
knows that when you take a bulb in the autumn and dig a hole to put it in, and
then cover it up, something close to miraculous happens. After the season
of ice and snow and bitter winter wind, the sun warms the earth, and green
blades rise up out of the ground. And soon beautiful petals appear in all
shades of the rainbow.
That was how Mam Mam’s garden looked during the spring and summer - like a
rainbow had slid down to earth and draped itself across her yard. She
spent many of her days tending that garden - trimming the hedges, cleaning out
the dead leaves, picking cherries from the tree and grapes from the vine.
You know, Jesus had a story about a vine. In fact, he used this image to
describe himself - “I am the vine, you are the branches.” He talked about
pruning the vine to produce the best fruit, and grafting branches onto the
vine. So Jesus must have known something about the process of cultivating
life and faith in order to make it as fruitful as possible. He even told
a parable about a fig trees and spreading fertilizer around one to get it to
bear fruit.
In fact, if you think about it, Jesus has many, many parables that have to do
with the processes of nature. There was the parable about the wheat and
the weeds, the sheep and the goats, the blowing wind, fields ripe for harvest,
how seeds grow, and the signs in weather. And he understood the
interrelatedness of all living things. "Look at the birds of the
air, they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly
Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?” (Matthew
6:26).
Mam Mam loved the birds, too. She would place feeders out for them and
sit on that swing to watch their aerial ballet. Several years ago, Mam
Mam and I were sitting on her swing in the yard, and she told me how she had
watched a blue jay sitting on the wire, calling “EEEDEE, EEEDEE!” And
then his mate flew in, alighting on the wire beside him. Then they both
of the blue jays flew away together. During that visit, Mam Mam told that
story to me two or three times. And I thought to myself, I wonder if Mam
Mam is trying to tell me something here.
That was close to a decade ago when she was nearly 80 years old. Ten
years later, Mam Mam continued to live in her house and work in her garden with
the energy of someone half her age. Until one morning this past October
when she was out in the garden at the break of day and a tiny blood vessel
burst in her brain. When we came to the hospital, we saw her shoes still
caked with mud from being in the garden that very morning.
It was so hard to see her lying on that bed in the hospital those many long
days, especially when we were so used to seeing her up and active.
Finally, in accordance with her living will and after conferring with the doctors,
the family decided to remove her from life support, because the damage done was
irreversable and unstoppable.
But we decided to have a service of commendation for her before she was removed
from life support. And my husband, Jim, and I were given some time alone
with her before the service. We walked into her hospital room. She
was surrounded by machines pumping fluids into her veins and air into her
lungs. She had not woken up for three days. Jim stood on one side
of the bed, I stood on the other. Through our tears, we talked to
her. Jim said, “Mam Mam, it’s Jimmy. I think you can hear me, and I
want to tell you how much I love you.” And at that moment he felt her
squeeze his hand. We looked at each other, and then continued talking to
her, telling her all we wanted to say.
Finally I said, “Mam Mam, I want to tell you what’s going to be
happening. You had a stroke and you’re hooked up to a breathing machine,
but the doctors can’t fix what’s wrong. We’re going to be taking the tube
out of you so that you’ll be more comfortable. And it’s going to be okay,
Mam Mam. Don’t be afraid. You have such a strong faith. You
know where you’ll be going. You’ll get to see your husband Lefty and your
friend Millie and your brother and parents, and everyone who’s gone ahead of
you. It’s okay to let go. You take as much time as you need. In a
few minutes we’re going to bring the whole family in and say prayers with
you. We’ll all be right here with you.” And at that moment she
opened her eyes, nodded her head and smiled. It was the first time in
three days that she had responded in such a way. And she
understood. She knew.
We had a beautiful service at her bedside. All of us crowded into that
little room and circled her bed. And I said this prayer for her:
“Almighty God, look on Mildred, whom you made your child in Baptism, and
comfort her with the promise of life with all your saints in your eternal
kingdom, the promise made sure by the death and resurrection of your Son, Jesus
Christ our Lord. Amen.”
After the service, we waited outside while the ventilator was removed.
When we came back in, she held her two daughters’ hands and whispered her final
words: “God bless you.” A few days later, she let go and passed into
eternal life.
Those moments we had with her, when she gave us her blessing for entrusting her
to God -- those were resurrection moments for me – they were Easter moments,
even in the face of death. Mam Mam’s faith was cultivated in the church,
and in the garden, and she believed God’s promises to her. And I have to
believe that she especially drew comfort from these words: "Truly,
truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it
remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.” (John 12:24). Those words
were spoken by The Gardener.
The Gardener knows the truth of eternal life, and is trying to communicate that
to us in as many creative ways as he can. I would say to Mary, it was no
accident that the one you saw put you in mind of the Gardener - not a soldier,
not a priest, not one of the disciples - but a Gardener. This is the one
who understands the deep, deep truth that permeates all life - that gives
purpose and meaning and hope to those who allow themselves to be taught by the
Earth and nurtured by the promises of God.
Yes, Mary, this is the Gardener. The Creator of all life, the
Incarnation of Love which exploded the world into glorious being. The one
who created the first Garden in Eden and wept tears of sadness in a Garden at
Gethsemane, and finally conquered death in the place where life begins - in the
garden.
And The Gardener comes to each of us, just like he came to Mary, just like he
came to Mam Mam, showing us the first daffodils and blue bells of spring,
coaxing us out into the warm sunshine to sit in gardens and draw near to the
heart of God, and remember the promise that neither life nor death nor things
present nor things to come can separate us from the love of God.
Easter moments are all around us, reminding us that God’s promise of eternal
life is true. It is as certain as the buried seed pushing through the
earth, as certain as the new baby pushing through the birth canal, as certain
as Mam Mam’s soul hearing the call of the blue jay in the garden that morning,
and pushing up into flight.
A few days after the funeral, Jim’s aunt was walking down the path in Mam Mam’s
garden when something caught her eye. It was a feather. The feather
of a blue jay.
The Gardener lives! Amen.